Showing Up Faithfully: Simple Ways I Care for Myself as a Mom
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Motherhood is beautiful, messy, and often overwhelming. Some days feel like a blur of dishes, laundry, and little voices calling your name. In the midst of it all, it’s easy to feel like you’re falling behind, doing “just enough,” or even failing.
But I’ve learned something important: faithfulness matters more than perfection. Showing up for yourself — even in small ways — helps you show up better for your family. Here’s how I do it, every day, with God at the center.
1. Start the Day with God
Before the kids wake up, I take a few quiet moments to pray and read the Word. Even one verse can anchor my heart and set the tone for the day.
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” — Psalm 119:105
These small moments remind me that I’m not relying on my own strength — I’m leaning on His.
2. Pray Through the Hard Moments
Motherhood is full of unpredictable challenges. When frustration or exhaustion hits, I stop, take a deep breath, and pray. Sometimes it’s as simple as, “Lord, give me patience today.”
Prayer keeps me grounded and reminds me that I’m not alone in this journey.
3. Spend Time Outdoors with My Kids
Fresh air is a must — for me and for my little ones. Even a ten-minute walk outside or some playtime in the yard resets our hearts, lifts our spirits, and gives us a shared moment of peace. It’s a reminder that God is bigger than the chaos of the day, and that we’re made to enjoy His creation together.
4. Choose Presence Over Perfection
The dishes can wait. The laundry can wait. But my kids won’t stay little forever. Choosing to be present — fully engaged in the moments I have with them — is more important than checking off a to-do list.
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.” — Colossians 3:23
Even ordinary moments are holy when done with love and intention.
5. Care for My Body
Caring for myself isn’t selfish — it’s stewardship. Simple food, gentle movement, and adequate rest allow me to pour into my family without running on empty. Small choices, made faithfully, add up to more energy, patience, and joy.
6. Rest When Needed
Rest is not a luxury; it’s necessary. God invites us to come to Him for rest:
“Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28
Rest recharges my soul and equips me to show up faithfully for my kids, my husband, and my work.
Faithfulness Over Perfection
Motherhood doesn’t require perfection — it requires faithfulness. Showing up for God, for yourself, and for your family in small, daily ways matters more than the big gestures.
Whether it’s a quiet prayer, a verse read, a walk outside, or simply taking a deep breath in the chaos, faithfulness counts.